Perfect Mate Oil by Espiritu, 2 Dram
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- Primary Spiritual Use: Love
- Secondary Spiritual Use: Romance
- Size: 2 dram
- Element: Water
- Planet: Venus
- Zodiac: Taurus, Libra
- Chakra: Heart
- Ruling Day: Friday
- Tradition: Wiccan/eclectic
- Intent: Love, Romance, Attraction
Call in the one who is right for you. Perfect Mate Oil is a blended fragrance oil crafted to help you attract a compatible, loving partner, one whose values and heart truly match your own. Rather than fixing on any one person, this Perfect Mate Oil by Espiritu is made for dressing candles, anointing love charms, and focusing your intention on the kind of relationship you most want to welcome.
This 2 dram bottle is a sampler size, the right amount to try the blend or dress a candle or two without committing to a larger bottle. A few drops carry your intention into a candle, a charm, or a written wish. The oil focuses and amplifies your hope; the meeting itself unfolds in its own time.
At a glance
Key Features of Perfect Mate Oil
Attract a true match. Aimed at drawing a compatible, loving partner whose values and warmth meet your own.
Made for love magic. Dress pink candles, anoint love charms and petitions, or keep a dressed token on your altar. For skin, dilute in a carrier oil first.
A 2 dram sampler bottle. A small introductory size, enough to try the blend or dress a candle and decide whether it belongs in your practice. Also offered as a 1 oz personal bottle and a 16 oz bottle.
The particulars
Product Details
- Volume: 2 dram (approximately 7.4 ml)
- Blend: proprietary Espiritu perfect mate formula
- Use: ritual anointing of candles, charms, and petitions; dilute in a carrier oil for skin
- External use only. Not for ingestion. Keep out of reach of children.
Ingredients
Espiritu does not publish the full formula for this blend. Treat it as a blended fragrance oil: dilute it in a carrier oil such as jojoba or grapeseed before any skin contact, and patch test first. Contact us with sensitivity questions before ordering.
The Spiritual Significance
Magic for finding a partner works best when it is aimed at a quality, not a person. Rather than trying to bend one particular individual toward you, Perfect Mate work asks the universe to bring forward someone genuinely compatible, someone whose values, warmth, and intentions match what you are ready to give and receive. Folk practitioners often pair this kind of working with clear reflection on what they truly want in a relationship, writing it down and dressing a candle to carry the wish.
This is gentle, attraction-based magic. It draws the willing and the well-matched rather than overriding anyone's free choice, which is exactly why it sidesteps the tangles that come from targeting a specific person. Pair it with the practical work of meeting people, being open, and knowing your own worth. The oil focuses and amplifies your intention; the meeting itself unfolds in its own time.
Ways to use it
What Is Perfect Mate Oil Used For?
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Spellwork
Use it in workings for love, romance and attraction. -
Dressing a candle
Rub a drop or two onto the candle before you light it, to add your intention to the working. -
Candles and wax melts
Stir it into melted wax when you make candles or wax melts. -
A petition or sigil
Dab it on a petition paper, or use it to draw a sigil. -
Spell bags and jars
Add a few drops to a spell bag, charm or jar. -
Anointing a crystal or tool
Touch a drop to a crystal, wand or other tool. -
Doorways and windowsills
Trace a drop along a doorframe or windowsill. -
Blessing a new tool
Anoint a new crystal, wand or candle holder before its first use. -
New or full moon rituals
Use it to dress your candle or anoint yourself during a moon working. -
Meditation
Warm a drop in your oil warmer, or wear a diluted dab, before you sit. -
Holidays and sabbats
Use it to dress candles for seasonal celebrations. -
Everyday scent
Warm it in an oil warmer, or wear it diluted, for the fragrance alone. -
On skin
Wear it as a personal scent or for a glamour. Dilute it in a carrier oil such as jojoba or grapeseed, and patch test a small spot first. -
In an oil warmer
Fill the warmer's dish mostly with water and add one drop for a lighter scent. Don't use it in an ultrasonic diffuser, which needs essential oils. -
As a gift
A small bottle goes a long way, since most uses take a drop or two. -
How much and how to store it
A drop or two is enough for most uses. Fragrance oils hold up well, so you can keep the bottle with your other supplies with the cap on tight.
Step by step
How To Use Perfect Mate Oil
- Know what you want. Reflect on the partnership you truly hope for.
- Write it down. A short list of qualities, not a name.
- Dress a candle. Touch a few drops to a pink candle and burn it safely, never left unattended.
- Anoint a charm. Carry it or keep it on your altar.
- Stay open. Meet life halfway, and store the oil cool and dark.
Good company
Pairs Well With
- Come To Me Oil draw willing love.
- Orisha Oshun Oil honor the orisha of love.
- Meditation Oil reflect on what you truly want.
- Copal Oil cleanse before love work.
Before you buy
Frequently Asked Questions
Should I buy the 2 dram, the 1 oz, or the 16oz?
Choose by how often you work with it. This 2 dram bottle is a sampler for trying the blend. The 1 oz suits steady practice, and the 16oz suits those who work love magic often. The blend is identical.
What is Perfect Mate Oil for?
It is a love blend used to attract a compatible, loving partner. Rather than targeting one person, it focuses your intention on the qualities and kind of relationship you most want to welcome into your life.
Can I use it to make a specific person love me?
That is not what it is for. Perfect Mate work is aimed at qualities, not a named individual, and it draws what is willing and well-matched rather than overriding anyone's free choice. That is exactly what keeps the magic clean and the outcome healthy.
How do I use it on my skin?
Always dilute a drop in a carrier oil such as jojoba or grapeseed and patch test first. It is a fragrance blend for external use only, never to be ingested.
What is in the blend?
Espiritu keeps the formula proprietary. Treat it as a blended fragrance oil, dilute before skin contact, and patch test. Its power lives in your intention and your openness to connection.
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