Flames of Desire Oil by Espiritu, 2 Dram
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- Primary Spiritual Use: Love
- Secondary Spiritual Use: Attraction
- Size: 2 dram
- Element: Water
- Planet: Venus
- Zodiac: Taurus, Libra
- Chakra: Heart
- Ruling Day: Friday
- Tradition: Wiccan/eclectic
- Intent: Love, Attraction, Romance
Desire has its own heat, and some workings are built to kindle it. Flames of Desire Oil is a passionate attraction oil, blended to stir longing, awaken magnetic appeal, and bring the spark of desire to romance and to the way others are drawn to you. This Flames of Desire Oil by Espiritu carries that ardent intention into anointing work, a blended fragrance oil for dressing candles, charms, and the rituals where you invite passion and magnetism to rise.
The 2 dram bottle is a sampler size: enough to dress a few candles and meet the blend before you commit to a larger bottle. Dress a candle, anoint a charm or a petition, or wear a trace of the diluted oil when you want to feel your own allure. The oil carries the intention; the confidence is yours.

At a glance
Key Features of Flames of Desire Oil
A passionate-desire focus. Worked to kindle longing and magnetic attraction, this oil is for desire, allure, and the heat that draws others toward you.
Made for attraction work. Its home is romance and allure magic: a red candle dressed, a charm or petition anointed, a trace worn when you want to feel magnetic. For skin, dilute it in a carrier oil first.
A 2 dram bottle. This is the sampler size, enough to dress a candle or two and learn how the blend works in your practice before moving up. For larger sizes, see the 1 oz or the 16oz.
The particulars
Product Details
- Volume: 2 dram (approximately 7.4 ml)
- Blend: proprietary Espiritu formula in the Flames of Desire tradition
- Use: ritual anointing of candles, charms, and petitions to kindle desire and magnetic attraction; dilute in a carrier oil for skin
- External use only. Not for ingestion. Keep out of reach of children.
Ingredients
Espiritu does not publish the full formula for this blend. Treat it as a blended fragrance oil: dilute it in a carrier oil such as jojoba or grapeseed before any skin contact, and patch test first. Contact us with sensitivity questions before ordering.
The Spiritual Significance
Among love and attraction formulas, the ones named for fire and flame lean toward the most passionate end of the spectrum: desire, allure, and the magnetic pull that turns heads. Flames of Desire belongs to this family, reached for to awaken longing, to feel and project magnetism, and to bring heat to a romance or to your own presence in the world. Red candles, rose, and the warm tokens of attraction are its natural companions.
The honest and ethical frame for attraction work is that it kindles your own magnetism and warms what is freely offered rather than compelling anyone's feeling; desire that is mutual and freely given is both kinder and far more satisfying than anything forced. Dress and burn a red candle as you picture the passion you hope to feel and share, anoint a charm or a petition, or wear a trace of the diluted oil when you want to feel your own allure. As with all conjure, the oil focuses your intention and confidence rather than overriding another's will. It draws on folk attraction magic without belonging to any single lineage.
Ways to use it
What Is Flames of Desire Oil Used For?
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Spellwork
Use it in workings for love, attraction and romance. -
Dressing a candle
Rub a drop or two onto the candle before you light it, to add your intention to the working. -
Candles and wax melts
Stir it into melted wax when you make candles or wax melts. -
A petition or sigil
Dab it on a petition paper, or use it to draw a sigil. -
Spell bags and jars
Add a few drops to a spell bag, charm or jar. -
Anointing a crystal or tool
Touch a drop to a crystal, wand or other tool. -
Doorways and windowsills
Trace a drop along a doorframe or windowsill. -
Blessing a new tool
Anoint a new crystal, wand or candle holder before its first use. -
New or full moon rituals
Use it to dress your candle or anoint yourself during a moon working. -
Meditation
Warm a drop in your oil warmer, or wear a diluted dab, before you sit. -
Holidays and sabbats
Use it to dress candles for seasonal celebrations. -
Everyday scent
Warm it in an oil warmer, or wear it diluted, for the fragrance alone. -
On skin
Wear it as a personal scent or for a glamour. Dilute it in a carrier oil such as jojoba or grapeseed, and patch test a small spot first. -
In an oil warmer
Fill the warmer's dish mostly with water and add one drop for a lighter scent. Don't use it in an ultrasonic diffuser, which needs essential oils. -
As a gift
A small bottle goes a long way, since most uses take a drop or two. -
How much and how to store it
A drop or two is enough for most uses. Fragrance oils hold up well, so you can keep the bottle with your other supplies with the cap on tight.
Step by step
How To Use Flames of Desire Oil
- Center on the desire you want to kindle. Hold it in mind with care for everyone's freedom.
- Dress a red candle. Touch a few drops to a red candle and burn it safely as you picture passion rising, never left unattended.
- Anoint a charm or petition. Mark a charm or a written petition naming the desire you hope to awaken.
- Wear a trace, diluted. Touch a diluted drop to yourself when you want to feel your own magnetism.
- Let confidence carry it. Meet the moment with genuine presence, and store the oil cool and dark.
Good company
Pairs Well With
- Come To Me Oil draw a specific person closer.
- Red Chime Candles dress a red candle for passion.
- Parchment Paper by Espiritu write the desire you are kindling.
- Black Velveteen Bag build an attraction charm bag to keep close.
Before you buy
Frequently Asked Questions
Should I buy the 2 dram, the 1 oz, or the 16oz?
Choose by how often you work with it. This 2 dram bottle is a sampler for a first meeting with the blend. The 1 oz suits steady personal practice, and the 16oz is the working bottle for those who work at scale or formulate from it. The blend is identical.
What is Flames of Desire Oil used for?
Kindling passionate desire and magnetic attraction: awakening longing, projecting allure, and bringing heat to romance or to your own presence. Practitioners dress red candles, anoint charms and petitions, and wear a trace, diluted, when they want to feel and radiate their own magnetism.
How is Flames of Desire different from Fire of Love?
Both work with passion, but from different angles. Fire of Love warms and rekindles the love within a romance, while Flames of Desire leans into desire and magnetic attraction, the spark and the longing. Many practitioners reach for Flames of Desire when allure and heat, more than tenderness, are the goal.
Can it force someone to desire me?
No, and the most ethical attraction work does not try. This oil is best used to kindle your own magnetism and to warm desire that is freely felt. Mutual, freely given attraction is both kinder and far more satisfying than anything that overrides another's will.
When is the best time to work with it?
Attraction work is traditionally set on Fridays, the day of Venus, and as the moon waxes when you are drawing desire toward you. Beyond timing, work it when you can meet the moment with genuine confidence; the oil supports your own magnetism best when you carry it into the world.
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