Love Me Oil by Espiritu, 1 oz
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- Primary Spiritual Use: Love
- Secondary Spiritual Use: Attraction
- Size: 1 oz
- Element: Water
- Planet: Venus
- Zodiac: Taurus, Libra
- Chakra: Heart
- Ruling Day: Friday
- Tradition: Folk magic
- Intent: Love, Attraction, Romance
Sometimes you want to be truly seen by someone who could love you back. Love Me Oil is an attraction formula worked to draw affection and devotion toward you, a blended fragrance oil for making yourself more magnetic to love and inviting a willing heart to turn your way. This Love Me Oil by Espiritu is made for dressing candles, anointing charms, and marking the workings where you ask to be loved freely and well.
This 1 ounce bottle is a personal size, enough to dress candles and anoint yourself through a long season of practice. Dress a candle as you picture being loved well, anoint yourself diluted, or carry a charm touched with the oil. The oil carries the intention; a willing heart still chooses you.

At a glance
Key Features of Love Me Oil
A draw-affection focus. Worked to heighten your magnetism and turn warm, devoted feeling toward you, this oil is the dressing reached for when you want to be seen and cherished.
Made for love work. Its home is warm conjure: a candle dressed for devotion, the body anointed diluted, a charm carried. For skin, dilute it in a carrier oil first.
A 1 ounce personal bottle. A versatile size suited to steady practice and a good measure for dressing candles and anointing yourself over a long season. Also offered as a 16 oz practitioner bottle and a 2 dram sampler.
The particulars
Product Details
- Volume: 1 fl oz (approximately 30 ml)
- Blend: proprietary Espiritu love-attraction formula
- Use: ritual anointing of candles, charms, and the body (diluted) to draw warm, willing affection; dilute in a carrier oil for skin
- External use only. Not for ingestion. Keep out of reach of children.
Ingredients
Espiritu does not publish the full formula for this blend. Treat it as a blended fragrance oil: dilute it in a carrier oil such as jojoba or grapeseed before any skin contact, and patch test first. Contact us with sensitivity questions before ordering.
The Spiritual Significance
Workings to be loved are old as longing itself. People have anointed themselves, dressed candles, and carried charms to be seen, desired, and cherished by someone whose affection they hope to win. A love me formula belongs to that yearning current: it is worked to heighten your magnetism and draw warm, devoted feeling toward you.
Consent is the honest center of this work. The cleanest way to use it is to make yourself more visible and magnetic to love that is free to grow, drawing those who could genuinely care for you, rather than trying to compel a particular person against their will. Love that is forced is not love; affection given freely is. Dress and burn a candle as you picture being loved well, anoint a charm to carry, or add a diluted trace to a bath. As with all conjure, the oil focuses your intention and your magnetism; a willing heart still chooses you. It draws on folk love practice without belonging to any single closed lineage.
Ways to use it
What Is Love Me Oil Used For?
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Spellwork
Use it in workings for love, attraction and romance. -
Dressing a candle
Rub a drop or two onto the candle before you light it, to add your intention to the working. -
Candles and wax melts
Stir it into melted wax when you make candles or wax melts. -
A petition or sigil
Dab it on a petition paper, or use it to draw a sigil. -
Spell bags and jars
Add a few drops to a spell bag, charm or jar. -
Anointing a crystal or tool
Touch a drop to a crystal, wand or other tool. -
Doorways and windowsills
Trace a drop along a doorframe or windowsill. -
Blessing a new tool
Anoint a new crystal, wand or candle holder before its first use. -
New or full moon rituals
Use it to dress your candle or anoint yourself during a moon working. -
Meditation
Warm a drop in your oil warmer, or wear a diluted dab, before you sit. -
Holidays and sabbats
Use it to dress candles for seasonal celebrations. -
Everyday scent
Warm it in an oil warmer, or wear it diluted, for the fragrance alone. -
On skin
Wear it as a personal scent or for a glamour. Dilute it in a carrier oil such as jojoba or grapeseed, and patch test a small spot first. -
In an oil warmer
Fill the warmer's dish mostly with water and add one drop for a lighter scent. Don't use it in an ultrasonic diffuser, which needs essential oils. -
As a gift
A small bottle goes a long way, since most uses take a drop or two. -
How much and how to store it
A drop or two is enough for most uses. Fragrance oils hold up well, so you can keep the bottle with your other supplies with the cap on tight.
Step by step
How To Use Love Me Oil
- Picture being loved well. The devotion you hope to draw.
- Dress a candle. Touch a few drops to a red or pink candle and burn it safely, never left unattended.
- Anoint yourself, diluted. Touch a diluted trace to your pulse points before you go out.
- Carry a charm. Mark a token touched with the oil to keep your invitation close.
- Stay open. Welcome what is freely given, and store the oil cool and dark.
Good company
Pairs Well With
- Come To Me Oil pair to call a willing love closer.
- Red Chime Candles dress red candles for devotion.
- Black Velveteen Bag build a love charm to carry.
- Love Drawing Oil pair to widen your call for new love.
Before you buy
Frequently Asked Questions
Should I buy the 1 oz, the 2 dram, or the 16oz?
Choose by how often you work with it. This 1 oz bottle is a personal working size for steady practice. The 2 dram is a sampler, and the 16oz is the working bottle for those who work at scale or formulate from it. The blend is identical.
What is Love Me Oil used for?
Drawing affection toward you. Practitioners dress candles, anoint themselves and charms, and work to heighten their magnetism so they are seen, desired, and cherished, inviting warm and willing devotion to turn their way.
Can it make one specific person love me?
No, and forcing love is not the aim. Worked cleanly, this oil heightens your magnetism and draws affection that is free to grow, calling those who could genuinely care for you rather than overriding any particular person's will. Love that is compelled is not love.
How is it different from Love Drawing or Lovers Oil?
Love Drawing Oil broadly calls new romance toward you, and Lovers Oil deepens passion between an existing couple. Love Me leans toward drawing a willing heart's affection and devotion to you.
What is in the blend?
Espiritu keeps the formula proprietary, as is traditional for spell oils. Treat it as a blended fragrance oil: dilute it in a carrier before skin contact and patch test first. Its work lives in the ritual and your intention, not in any single named ingredient.
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